Find your look-and-finally know who you are
Posted by Chatman on 15 May 2008 - 22:12
We know that behind each of our choice, even in dress, lurks a far more complicated analysis of who we are and what we want. The urge to dress in black rather than red, for example, could probably have something to do with our need to feel always in order and ready for any eventuality ", is a business meeting or a cocktail with friends .
The psychoanalyst Maria Pia Bobbioni, an expert of History of costume, tells how the example can wear trousers so have to do with the desire to be comfortable, but especially with un'insicurezza that distorts the perception that many women have their physical .
And what about the bags, fetish of a lot of women, including us pinkbloggers? The stock market is in a sense our whole life in a bag a woman puts his private (the keys of the house), its beauty (tricks), their work (calendar and phone), plus an infinite TRASH other that give us tranquility and above all the certainty of being ready for anything.
The ritual of choosing the right look, is, in short, dialogue face to face with ourselves: we feel uncomfortable in our skin? We then struggled to find the square with any dress, was also our favorite. We feel the need to change style at least once a month? Probably we are still looking for ourselves and our instability in choosing clothes is simply a reflection of our emotional instability.
In the continuing pursuit of our Look, the one with the "L" capitalized, the first step is to begin to think of ourselves, without asking the question of pleasure to others. Only then can we find our size and show the world our real identity at this point certainly dressed to look a whole and our personal, despite all what we want equal and produced in series.
And you have ever reflected on the reasons that lead you to dress in a certain way? You are still under research, or you have finally found your image and your size?